Reflections of Iman brings you....Means to Attain a Happy Family Life, by Shaykh Sulayman Ruhaylee... Some husbands and some of the fathers, their laughter is reserved for the people outside of the home, and if you see him outside of his family, you would say, “Masha Allah! He does not stop laughing!” And he makes those around him laugh. But when he enters the home, he transforms into a lion! He does not smile in his wife’s face, and he does not smile in his children’s face! This is not living with them in kindness.